How to juggle bandaids, vegetables, and kids
Tuesday, March 23, 2021
My brain is part of my body!
I responded, "Izzy, my brain is part of my physical body."
As open as I try to be with my kids, I realize I may have missed the mark with mental illness. I have struggled with ADHD since I was a kid and anxiety and depression for most of my adult life as well. Only recently have I begun to speak about these issues unashamedly.
There have been more conversations and positive strides in how we view mental illness in recent years but the conversation must continue.
Modest clothing rant
That said, there is an unhealthy train of thought held by certain groups of people that says girls and women are responsible for the thoughts of boys and men based on what they wear. This is ridiculous.
First of all, in the evangelical world, this is just another thing that makes Christians look like evil jerks. It is exactly what rape culture tells girls and women.
It embarrasses them.
Secondly, it tells men that they are nothing but animals who can't control their own impulses so they don't need to try.
Lastly, it's completely arbitrary.
Friday, January 1, 2021
A light in the darkness...
Wednesday, December 30, 2020
ADHD brain
We're almost a year deep into this crazy thing called Covid-19. This will definitely be a year to remember. I personally am still trying to figure out how to make my brain actually make a plan for the day. Now that I'm working from home and/or the church only about 20 hours a week, I have a ton of time to get my house in the order. You know, the one that I swore to myself that if I just could have a week at home, I could figure this out and get it clean and organized? Well, we are going on 10 months of being at home and I still don't have it together.
It's my ADHD brain that is my problem. And yet, deep down I also know that my weird brain can be one of my greatest strengths. When I really get into a project, it turns out amazing, as long as it's something that can be finished within a fairly short amount of time. The question is, "How do I wield my brain of power for good?"
Somehow I need to make my house my newest project. Then I will break it down into smaller projects and go from there. It needs to be fun. It needs to be a challenge. And I need to actually FINISH IT! (Because I have this tendency to do 90% of a project and then quit.) This year (2021) might be just what I need to get somewhere with it because we are planning to have a Jorgenson family reunion at my house this summer.
Jesus, help me.
Tuesday, February 11, 2020
Treehouse!
Basically, I used some boards and a level to measure how long the base boards were going to need to be. (Cut them long, you can always shorten them later.) |
I used green treated 2x6s, cut to my measurements, to create a triangular base. |
I used an old tarp to create a template for the floor. It wasn't very scientific. I just used a scissor and cut around the tree. |
I created this simple ladder out of some scrap 2x4s in the garage and some little logs on the log pile that were about 3 inches in diameter. I attached them with some washer head power head screws. |
The ladder wasn't quite long enough so I added these turning steps into the tree with some left over pieces of the 2x6 boards and shims as needed. |
And there I had it. A platform in a tree, not very safe! |
I was wanting to keep costs down and also have the treehouse not look tacky in front of my house. I decided to use large branches from the tree itself to make the side rails. |
Once they were in place, I bought some basic rope and wrapped it to make a web. |
Voila! The finished project!
Monday, March 25, 2019
Entryway remodel
Before |
After |
Alright, alright. I’ll tell you how I did it. 😂
Sunday, April 16, 2017
Is summer here yet?
Yes, I just went on an amazing vacation with my family to somewhere warm.
Yes, I understand that most people have to work through the summer.
I know all of these things are true but my cabin fever gets a little crazy once sunny spring days appear in Minnesota. I long to get out in my garden and put in my plants that will inevitably be attacked by some crazy form of Creeping Jenny, insects, and/or fungus. I will spend hours upon hours working to save the plants only to have a small to moderate amount of produce live through the ordeal. I dream of selling my produce at the farmers market but I will end up with enough to feed my family and give to friends and have nothing to sell anyway.
I CAN'T WAIT FOR IT!
Why? Because even though I love my job as a school nurse I don't really like getting up early. Even though I feel extremely useful after helping a student with a deadly diabetic low or broken arm, I am exhausted from stress of quick thinking and being the one with answers.
Everyone needs time to rest and rejuvenate. My kids need it after doing the work of school, extracurriculars, and busy weekends, and my husband needs it too (although he seems to need it less often than me) after weeks and weeks of clinical trials and combing through data.
There is a mentality in the working world that we need to be martyrs. That we are better or harder workers if we go in to work when we aren't feeling well. (Please don't do this. You are actually compounding the problem by bringing your illness to work with you.) That we shouldn't take time off for appointments our kids need for mental health, or even more often, appointments that we need for ourselves.
Let's be honest. None of us are better off making a few more bucks to spend on junk, spending less time at home with our families, or juggling the insanely busy schedules that we allow to capture us so that we aren't our best at any of the things we are doing. Time suckers or life suckers can be at home or church or out in the community. They are anywhere else that we allow circumstances and work to take up our time and mental energy.
Can gardening do this too? Maybe for you but not for me. Each of us is different. Figure out what is sucking the life out of you, how to take a vacation from it, and do it without any guilt. You might even be more productive for it, but productivity isn't what life is about. It's about living.
My brain is part of my body!
Recently, when talking to my kids I mentioned that I haven't been feeling very well lately and that I need to make an appointment with m...